tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55354193753567481142024-03-05T04:52:11.919-08:00sridevi nairsridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-11926904132969023122012-06-13T01:41:00.000-07:002012-07-28T06:30:54.642-07:00Notes for Dharma valley - a summer trek to the Panchachuli base camp<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<b>Note# 5. through a forest of emotion (
Nagling to Son via Baling 7 Km)</b><br />
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It was a cold cosy night. We girls
were in the top room of the wood and mud thatched house that was to be our accommodation.
Also, after a late night of raucous singing, chakti drinking, and endless
binging, and the sound of the howling wind, sleep came quick and easy. We woke
to hot piping tea served by Dhiren and Avinash and to the early morning
chirpings of the birds… To be honest those darn birds woke too early and made
so much noise in every camp that I would be up by 4ish and toss and turn till
the others were up. Actually I didn’t mind the birds or the noise but I did
mind not overcoming my inertia to go out and be about. I just lay in there sulking
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There was a tiny room adjacent to
the loo that could be used as a bathroom. No hot water though. I just had to
have a bath and some of us did. Taking bath with cold icy water in the mornings
is not advisable for all. But once you do, you don’t feel cold any longer and
the day looks much brighter. I always take a bath wherever possible…some water
and a bit of privacy is all I need. And there is a technique…first keep all
clothes in the order of wearing. Then keep the soap, shampoo whatever you need
open and handy. First wet your head and wash your head…that kind of makes the
water friendlier. Then without thinking much just pour a big mugful over you. Yes
your breath is knocked out instantly and you gasp…but then there is no going
back. Do your business quickly with soap and more rinsing and reach for your
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After a hearty breakfast we set
out. My ankle wasn’t healed and I reluctantly gave up my backpack that day
onwards and carried just a haversack for my camera and warm clothes and other
emergencies. Not very proud…and vanity bruised I accepted my condition and realized
that if I don’t do anything about it soon and seriously…my future treks are
going to be similar. I keep bringing this up because it really was a rattling
shocking experience to not be able to direct my body to the wishes of my mind. And
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We walked along a more flat steady
path with gradual inclines and crossing streams and bridges. As we climbed
higher we turned into a deodar forest. The moment I turned a corner I felt I have
stepped into something sacred. The 9am morning light was soft, halo like and
blurred the sharp edges of everything. The patch of trees with the light
playing on their moss covered limbs threw a surreal view on display. And I felt
rooted to the spot like the high and mighty deodars silently communing with
their roots. Drawing strength and nourishment from the land and sending down a
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I hugged a tree and felt one with
it…hugged another and walked on. But there was this one tree that somehow beckoned
to me but I was shy to go back and give it a hug. I left with a silent promise
that I will spend some time with it on my way back. I am usually reluctant to
show my emotions and there is a lot that I hide, but when a tree beckons you
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Every patch of forest I walked I silently
prayed that may man never reach here with their roads and vehicles. If need be,
may the villagers go down to more accessible and prosperous lands in and beyond
Dharchula, but may these sacred beings always remain pristine and untouched. In these
times that’s all one can do isn’t it. The forest and the animals are losing
their battle every day. Lower down in the valley The river has lost its width,
the wild animals have all gone, musk deer is a growing myth, there is 2 inch
thick concrete dust on the spring flowers and a cheap price tag for everything wild.
The good is no longer winning it seems. And
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As I grow older it gets harder to
choose sides. I was more clear in my 20ies whether its trees or people. But today
when I see an old man who had to carry his wife for 3 days for a treatment in
Dharchula…my idealistic tongue curls up and holds back. But there is a middle
ground. We can leave these places remote if the government can allow these
villagers more access (the army already flies in emergencies) to the air
sorties that go to and fro. And if the
focus can be on eco-tourism that can bring in the prosperity that the villagers
are hoping from roads and businesses… the people there know how to live with
the land. It’s their land after all. The trouble begins when this land will be
seen as a business opportunity by outsiders for other developments.<br />
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Thinking of these thoughts I walked
along with beautiful views of small buggials (meadows) across the mountain. The
path became more undulated and there was a slight chill. We came upon Bongling
village and stopped for some refreshments. Sunita the girl who ran the place
was a striking beauty. We placed our order for spicy maggi, coffees, tea, and
chowmein. Yummmm. My mouth still waters as I am writing this. There was a hint
of rain as we entered her place so the warmth from her stove made things
tastier. I'm sure the smell of woodsmoke is a like a primeval memory for all. It
confuses my mind with images I am not even part of along with some that I was…like
the campfires from childhood camps, our old family cook cooking fish in the
outhouse kitchen in my granny's ancestral house in Kerala during one vacation as we cousins looked on (it
was forbidden to cook meats or eggs in the main kitchen). Water boiling over and
the hissing of the burning wood, a fireplace in Shillong with my dogs and where
lucy always singed her fur by sitting too close, old men crouching over a fire
in winter, cavemen cooking the days
catch…..these memories are always in warm fiery tones and shadows... and with the promise
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Our stomachs full, we walked
along. The path ahead was flat and we all got a chance to walk together and
gossip. No I'm not sharing that. But it enlivened things up. Dilip passed us by
and Babita quickly changed the topic<span style="font-family: Wingdings;">:)</span>
it’s so strange; across time from my parents to my friends…men always frown at
women gossiping. It’s another matter that men are bigger gossips and exaggerate
truths and also love their exaggerations.</div>
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Started from Urthing after a heavy
breakfast and along the way we hit the ITBP checkpost. They had a telephone we
could use and we all called home. My mom didn’t pick her phone as usual and
they got a few calls back from her much to their amusements. A remote trekking route
with an ITBO post is nothing for her… she was used to checking on my father at
every Army TCP (transport checking post) much to my father’s embarrassment,
when he would be greeted by sir maam ka thodi der pehle hi phone aaya tha”(Sir
maam just called a while ago)… this is when he was travelling to really forward
border areas. I
had half a worry that she might get the number of the 2<sup>nd</sup> post at
Bongling and call me. But well she didn’t know when we would reach there…so it
figures<span style="font-family: Wingdings;">:)</span></div>
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Well from there it was an endless
up and down trail. We passed raging streams, bridges, scree, snow field, frozen
rivers and such. Given my ankle this time I wasn’t doing very well but Jyotsna
and Nidhi patiently pepped me up and walked with me. I am grateful. We were all
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It was still the early part of
the day nd the sun was blazing. Just at the top of the path that led us into
the village were a gaggle of girls…one of them more forward and forthcoming
welcomed us and pestered all of us for chocolate. When we told her to come in
the evening, she cheekily said that she would be asleep by then so it’s better
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It was a village to behold. Beautifully
built houses of stone and wood, with doors and facade decorated with goat horns, paintings
and carvings of statues of Gods and spirits…and some doors painted a deep deep lapis
lazuli blue. The houses had cattle bedding in the lower quarters below the
kitchen and bedrooms of most houses. The wealthier had a full courtyard covered
with barns and storerooms and different utility spaces, but most others made do handsomely with
their flat dwellings.<br />
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they are built from the granite stones collected from
the hills around and then cut to rough slates and stacked over one other. The mortar in between can’t be seen, and from the outside it
looks like a tight and perfectly stacked wall of stones. Houses are plastered with mud
from the inside and then painted. These old houses need masons who are expert in it…now
a dwindling tribe, what with villagers preferring modern brick and mortar
houses. These houses absorb the sun heat and stay warm for longer and in summer
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We were the guests of the local prince!...
he is the wealthiest in that village so I suppose he can say call himself so. The
food was delicious as usual and we had a proper toilet with a bath here. We took
a well-deserved nap and then got out to explore the village. Avinash and Dhiren
our guides took us around. Dhiren’s parents were from Nagling and we went
around seeing his house and also met his parents. We then moved onto other
important spots in the village and both Avinash and Dhiren told us of many
local lores and legends. I repeat that it’s hard to not believe in larger than
life entities. Everything around is so surreal and beautiful and wild and seen
in another light can also be threatening. Thy told us about the man who went
across the river and was spirited away by fairies. If you look hard at a spot on
the mountain across the river you can make out a face of a man and his dog
sleeping by his feet. They say in some beautiful enchanted places one should
never sleep off…as these other worldly beings might carry you away. The other story was of a wish fulfilling
vessel and a ghost but I have kind of forgotten the flow.</div>
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<b>Note#3. A great sunny start (Dar-Bongling-Urthing - 11Kms)</b><br />
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Hot water. Breakfast. And a
halfway ride… Small joys that we will begin to appreciate even more as we went
along the trip… We set out and Avinash Nepalchyal our guide was with us. He was
a 2<sup>nd</sup> year BA student and was
helping out his uncle (Mr Lakshman) during his break from college. His father
is in the AMC and he lives in Dharchula with his mother and brother; a very
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This is something I found across.
Everyone was so happy and proud of their culture and roots and without being
arrogant had great pride in telling us about it. Everywhere people were happy
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Halfway we sat on the roof of the
Maxx and it was some experience to have the wind in your hair, your heart in
your mouth as the vehicle lurched along narrow lanes with steep falls on one
side. It was sunny, it was real and it felt free and happy. We stopped at Dar
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The walk was easy…lots of ups and
downs in the trail…. Gauri spotted a yellow throated Marten along the way in a rhododendron
forest. This time of May summer was in effect and most vegetation around was
almost dry, and the sun was draining us a bit. At Bongling village we had our first
break and their hospitality was so touching. We met a 76 year old veteran who
takes tender for the meat supply to the local ITBP post. As we trekked further
he caught up with me and started talking….he told me about his son in
Chandigarh and his wife who passed away just a few days back. Along the way we
saw many small shrines for the dead. He explained that these are benign spirits
who guide the travellers and keep them safe from harm and bad spirits. I said a
prayer to all… you can’t not believe in such haloed places.</div>
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The day grew sunnier and so did
the discomfort. On a personal level this trek was an alarm bell for me. I need
to stop thriving on overconfidence and get fit. My ankles were hurting terribly
and I am ashamed to say that after the first two days I couldn’t carry my full
backpack and had to make-do with a day pack. I’ll never live this down… I am
sure my ankles hurt because of the excessive weight I have put on. So either I lose
it or I lose opportunities to trek<span style="font-family: Wingdings;">:(</span></div>
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We all tumbled into Urthing; some
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Urthing is a beautiful flat
campsite with a vertical shelf of mountain face on one side and the Dhauli
Ganga flowing beside on the other. The arrangements were unbelievable. We had
room size tents! There was a full kitchen and meals to die for! Food, tea,
soup, sweets… hard to say this was campsite food! We all relaxed; some played
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Late in the evening as we
gathered outside the kitchen hut, Sayee sang. I must explain Sayee to you. You can’t
ignore him. He is a well know musician in Goa. Has a deep voice - a rich
baritone, sings beautifully, is gregarious, generous and a great entertainer. He
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We all sang late into the night;
us the cooks, the staff…it was a happy merry night. Made merrier with some
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We retired into our tents
thinking the fun had ended. But late at night Haroon called out and we rushed
out thinking it was some wild animal. In a rush to get their cameras Nidhi and
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But it was worth it…a big round
cheezy yellow moon had just peaked off the mountain head. First everyone got busy
clicking and adjusting… then giving it all up just stood and stared at the moon
and the mountain, the moonlit valley, the stillness in the air, the rushing of
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This year’s trek was decided much
in advance. While some of us were rooting for Nanda Devi east base camp…our
organizer sold us this trip. And every bit was worth it. The route is Delhi to
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I was rushing to get to platform#13
in Old Delhi railway station to catch the Ranikhet express. I saw them before
they saw me…and each step down the stairs to the platform only brought more
familiar faces into focus. It was a happy reunion. I never felt I was meeting
them after a year. It was like meeting old school friends. So there was
Jyotsna, Nidhi, Babita, Haroon, Dilip, Amit, Rahul, Sarang from the last trek
and Anuradha, Ashley, Gauri, Sayee, Deepak, Pareesh and Ankur who I met for the
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The fun started when the train
rolled in and we were standing just below the stairs the ‘wrongest’
inappropriate place one can imagine…with our bulky backpacks. We created an
instant lockjaw jam…no one could more forward of back… not to mention the crazy
surge of human population; a meele of bawling children, plump aunties, sweaty
men, buckets, suitcases, bags, all struggling to get into the train or get
through us. I even had a man trying to get through between my backpack and my
back only to realise they are connected. Being short didn’t help as all we could see on
both sides were more people and the best thing to do seemed was to get into the
nearest 2<sup>nd</sup> class bogie. We pushed and got in…only to see that the
rest of the platform ahead was completely empty. We created the jam by trying
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Finally got into our AC compartments
and it felt like a 5 star lobby… That night I was declared Dr. Devi owing to my
universal and versatile cure of ‘salubrious mountain air’ and ‘lots of
laughter’…from fever to constipation. We got to know each other and Sayee saved
me by getting us some bread pakoras in the night. And we woke to the sounds of
people getting off at Kathgodam station. We took our time getting ready and
Jyotsna noticed Ashley brushing his teeth for a looong time…he being a dentist
made it sound funny<span style="font-family: Wingdings;">:)</span></div>
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The road trip to Dharchula was
made in 2 Mahindra Maxx…with full Kumar Shanu festival blaring in our ears. Our
driver Karan needed the music to keep him pepped up. The music finally let up
towards the 2<sup>nd</sup> half of the day and moved to mellow hum-able Kishore
kumar and Lata aunty tunes. We stopped midway to see a leopard sanctuary that
had three very healthy but bored leopards, they are fed 3 kg of buffalo meat
everyday but nothing much to sustain their wild spirit. We also stopped at many places for our
breakfast and numerous teas, but the best was the stop for lunch. It was a
quaint little dhaba named ‘Lohani’s about 70 kms before Pithoragarh. While half
of us feasted on the mustard flavoured kheera raita and simple chana the rest
went next door to have chicken and local fish. I was stung by the nettles or
‘bichu buti’…this plant is also boiled and eaten in the hills and many use it
as a pain bam. Pithoragarh is a big cantonment of both the Army and the
ITBP…and I was remembering all that my mom said about this place when my
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The route was very scenic along
the way and it only got better. But just then we received some bad news that
someone in the Roopkund trek died by a strike of lightning. Sandeep our organiser
had to rush back. All the beauty around went suddenly bleak. I could only feel
pained by thinking about his family and what he must have been thinking. I
really liked Nidhi’s perspective that fated or not, or his time had come or
not, but what is certain is that we have limited time in this world and we have
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rolled into Dharchula. It was a busy town and after the long and lonesome
winding hilly roads, all the bustle, lights and crowd was a surprise to our
senses. And like Jyotsna said it reminds one of Joshimath. Dharchula is the
border town with Nepal and has a connecting bridge that is open till 7 pm
daily. We were received by Mr Lakshman who runs an adventure tour company. He
introduced his team to us and briefed us on the trek. He was giving us standard
briefing procedures but we were a tired lot with no Sandeep in sight and a
change of plan at hand. It was a totally confusing confounding interesting
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He said the wrong things. We
asked the wrong questions. He painted a
bleak picture and gave us one plastic lunch box each in which we were supposed
to carry boring lunches like pulav, upma and other tasteless food. He also
warned us of the heavy snowfall along the glacier and that we might not be able
to do the last stretch to Panchachuli base camp due to the weather. At that
point he was of an emotional and reactionary nature and those who were of
similar disposition immediately sparked with him resulting in some pricelessly
funny conversation exchange. He told us to not mingle with the locals, that
smoking and alcohol was forbidden in the trek and that women need to be extra
careful on the trail. Some of us argued on all points while some of us wanted
to know why the stretcher has to be in the front and not the back and many such
questions that had him simply foxed! </div>
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He had invited a 3 time Everest
summiteer who is also a Padmashree awardee. He is an army ex-serviceman and
during his career has skied down from most peaks of the Himalayas. He also is
the only person to have spent 6 days at the final Everest camp without having to
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We finally retired for the night
in hope of some good sleep. I was a bit apprehensive after the evening’s
discussion wondering if with so many new factors it was going to be just an
easy walk in the park. But as the night got darker old wisdom and earlier
lessons learnt in the mountains came to me that going with the flow is the
greatest adventure and that anywhere in the mountains is always beautiful and
worth the while. The rest I don’t remember as I fell asleep.</div>
</div>sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-68507648253232873162012-05-26T09:03:00.002-07:002012-06-01T02:49:24.746-07:00Notes for Dharma valley - a summer trek to the Panchachuli base camp<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Many of us relate to this symbolically, it’s even part of my tattoo, but Tolkein’s famous quote from Lord of the rings really hold true for the people of Dharma Valley. They are the migratory Rang tribes also known as Bhotias (The six categories of Bhotia tribe are: Rang, Johari, Tolcha, Marcha and Jad)…they are Indo Tibeteans, of mixed ancestry, and are hardy cheerful people. They speak excellent Hindi, are educated; and even the remotest village boast of a doctor or engineer in each family thanks to the government reservations and facilities. I was happily surprised to see that albeit living in such remote and inaccessible terrain, they understand the value of an education, have taken advantage of it, and are prosperous. </div>
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They are migratory because of the patterns of the weather. As a cold bitter winter sets in, it makes the Dharma valley inhospitable, so they leave their high altitude dwellings to come down to the town of Dharchula or other villages; and as the summer sun warms the valley and melts the snow, they trek back up to the village, cattle, luggage, provisions and babies in tow. These treks can take from 4 to 5 days one way. </div>
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It inspires me. To live this life of transition. I for one, try and live out of a suitcase as much as possible. All my things can be packed into a suitcase and a bag of books. In the last five years I have bought a guitar, a bookshelf, and a cupboard as a possession (the latter three in the last few months by my mom). It’s nice to live simple and sparse. Keeps the thoughts clear, helps see the many possible futures, and of course no baggage. Something also to do with our cavemen days I’m told, when physical objects could potentially block our view of predators. Or it’s something to do with my nomadic life living in different army cantonments, making new friends, adapting, shedding, adding, and an early understanding that everything is temporary. </div>
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Summer is also the time to plough fields, sow buckwheat and potatoes and tend to livestock… and to trade. Dharma valley is situated in the Pithoragarh district of Uttarakhand and is inhabited by a population of 1000 spread over 12 small and remote villages inaccessible by road. Before the Indo China wars they were thriving on trans-Himalayan trade of legal goods like salts, raw material, wool, etc. and illegal trade of animal parts and other such. Post the war in 1962 the legal trade came to a stop rendering the otherwise prosperous villagers without much. But the illegal trade survives. The borders of Dharchula are very porous and a hop skip jump over the river will land you in Nepal. And further ahead there are passes into Tibet. The ITBP (Indo Tibet Border Police) is vigilant but more can be done for stopping trade in animal part and poaching. </div>
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Summer season is time to collect the ‘KEEDA’ or the caterpillar fungus. This creature thrives in the alpine slopes once the snow melts. It is a fungi spore that enters a caterpillar and devours it and turns the caterpillar into a fungus. There is high demand for it the Chinese medicine market and a kilo of this is prices at Rs. 4 Lakhs to Rs 5 Lakhs. this is how it looks...iv copied it from the internet to give you a more graphic morbid picture:)
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So Keeda collection is big for all families. I am told that this fungus produces strong steroids and many hinted that the success of Chinese athletes in the past decade has something to do with this as this is one steroid that is not detected in human test samples. Well it’s alleged so; I haven’t done any investigations to prove it </div>
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This is a thin line….where my values and beliefs conflict with my empathy for human survival. I do empathize that 4 lakhs could mean a fortune to this people and ensures them smiles throughout the year…but yes I do feel this is wrong not only for its illegal, but when going Keeda collecting, they also hunt Himalayan bear for its Bile and other smaller animals to trade in the Chinese medicine market.
So not all but maybe some of us who wander are kinda lost…</div>
</div>sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-23857342470432522212012-02-29T23:57:00.000-08:002012-02-29T23:57:43.658-08:00Death by Demand draftThe demand draft is a stealthy killer. It looks harmless…lurking behind old harmless bank counters. One hardly encounters them in everyday life and if one does it passes off as a benign happy smartly turned out cheque. <br />
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But it waits for you…in its tarantula-en web. Zen like… sharpening its claws, checking its traps, and estimating your naivety. Like a sniper it waits…amongst cheques, notes and coins. <br />
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The first attack is subtle… at the form filing itself…it wills you to make a mistake, in the payee name or the amount. If you pass that the next mistake usually is fatal….losing the demand draft: by yourself, by the receiver, or in transit. <br />
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It’s got you in its web. And as you struggle hard to retrieve yourself…you are pulled further down into the dark labyrinths of the nether world. A world where you will encounter rites of passage like…NOTARY, FRANKING, AFFIDAVIT, INDEMNITY, COUNTER SIGNATORY etc. <br />
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People you barely glanced at assume large proportions…you will meet bank managers, paan chewing random lurkers in bank, security guards, helpful advisors, service managers, tellers, advocate, other banks, franking machines and may be even the police and of course other customers with other purposes for conversations as you wait in endless lines. <br />
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For a demand draft is a promissory note. Like cash.<br />
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So here is the process for canceling a demand draft and reissuing it. <br />
Frist…cry at the misfortune…get it off your system. Prepare for an adverse experience by disembodying yourself and numbing yourself. <br />
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1. Now write a letter to the bank manager explain the loss, and the draft details. <br />
Get an indemnity form with a franking of Rs.200/- (some banks need a notary letter from an advocate)<br />
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2. get a third part guarantor to sign the indemnity form along with his pan card details.<br />
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3. If draft is lost by third party, a letter from them saying they have lost it in transit. <br />
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4. If you want to reissue a draft fill another demand draft request form and a ‘ to yourself’ cheque if it’s from your own bank. <br />
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5. Take it to the bank manager…breath and smile. Fingers crossed that he will accept. <br />
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6. It will take upto 15 days for the bank to contact the ‘payee’ get their signature and confirmation that they will not encash this draft, and then create new demand drafts for you.<br />
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7. In the event that anyone encashes this draft within six months of validity the bank will deduct it from your account. <br />
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You are usually dead by the end of all this…born again, wiser, calmer, sympathetic, and more appreciative of all that’s going well in life.<br />
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So my advice is as much as possible get away with a cheque…sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-52460558527334853562011-01-17T01:18:00.000-08:002011-01-17T01:18:41.739-08:00Sorry, why do I travel?Not just to see places…or to douse the restlessness that lurks inside. Not just to satiate the culture vulture nor to kill my curious gene. I don’t travel to expand my horizons or to realize that the best thing is in coming home. I don’t travel to feel free or express my independence in this standardized world. It’s not a drive of my individuality, my personality, my airy sun sign of Gemini, or a long ago promise to my angels. And it’s definitely not just the need to take off from everything for a while.<br />
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I travel because only in doing so I feel I am moving…somewhere, anywhere… For, to stand still is to die.sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-6016159266458004132010-01-29T01:20:00.000-08:002010-01-29T01:23:50.048-08:00Silent heart attackThese are the deadliest. Doctors would tell you this is by far the most damaging myocardial infarction (AMI or MI). Twice as many people die from a silent heart attack as compared to those that experienced a myocardial infarction with chest pain.<br />But some don’t die…they just live afresh. <br /><br />It often happens unannounced, around the unlikeliest person, in the safest environment, when you least expect it or even want it. It creeps up with everyday meetings, builds up with inane jokes and laughter, gathers force in comfortable glances, and explodes in ordinary settings. <br /><br />You very often miss it, even dismiss it. <br />It’s mistaken for other afflictions like camaraderie, comfort levels, even friendships. But soon others warn you, they can see the symptoms, a happy air, flushed cheeks, a spring in the step. They can feel the temperatures rising; they can hear the heartbeats racing, and see the erratic scratchings of the ECG. <br /><br />Then you suspect it. And try hard to justify it… ‘it can’t be, I’m not so weak’ ‘I practice self control every day’!!! <br /><br />Finding out that your heart is seriously damaged because you did not act right after a silent attack can be devastating.sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-67801430776985464902009-10-06T22:20:00.000-07:002009-10-06T22:23:00.606-07:00something stole the thunder off the biannual problem<p>What itch!<br />Ask for excitement and they send you a war.<br />Well war like were the last month and half…battling hospitals, fears, forms, presentations, work, weather, fever, travels, delays, doubts, worries, reports, heartbreaks, and dousing, others fears, franctic relatives, inconsolable friends, impatient clients, landlord, self doubts whew!<br />The lull after the storm although welcome, takes the wind out of the sail. </p>sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-33406312421099713572009-09-08T01:46:00.000-07:002009-09-08T01:50:53.451-07:00Biannual problem solution part 2The itch had become chronic since the last time I wrote and required some desperate measures.<br /><br />The initial spasms and attacks subsided when I decided to go on a trek by myself to har ki dun in Uttranchal. Having calmed down to it I saw anything and anyone as an enemy…work, fitness, clothes…. and I wasted no time and immediately checked out routes, maps, agents, guides...<br /><br />Nothing in October…. <em>'oh yes things can be arranged’</em> …..that is if you are willing to pay Rs.37000 for a lone trek by myself…along with 5 porters, 6 mules and a guide.<br /><br />Net result: nothing.<br /><br />There was a bigger conspiracy here.<br /><br />Right around this time my brother was planning to take off as well. Which meant my mom will be left alone. Which now meant more options given the trek to har ki dun wasn’t working out. Having been mesmerised by Spiti valley all my life, I decided nows the time. Its not a trek but a road trip, can be done in a week and will have company. And i will experience free range....endless mountains, vast cold lands, monastries and lamas, sheep and pastures...hmmmmm<br /><br />So that’s the plan…have taken off the week before diwali and am planning as we speak.sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-4259257539468485872009-09-01T23:53:00.000-07:002010-02-01T22:51:53.827-08:00A biannual problemI am beginning to itch…it’s not a stranger to me. I know the beginnings. It starts with contentment, the very contentment causes discontentment.<br /><br />It slowly creeps up my leg and messes with my head. I wait and watch…and wait and watch. But nothing out of the ordinary happens. No new challenge, obsession or curiosity comes around. No new troubles.<br /><br />A sense of irritation starts to develop…things dull out, lose colour. Friends seem alien and unavailable. It’s me and the dry road…and I am not even travelling on it.<br /><br />Nothing inspires me. I am unable to jump into the lives of the characters in the movies I watch. I invite delays, road jams, wrong meters, losing money and getting late... I’m no longer on top of things.<br /><br />I am putting on weight…clothes don’t fit and in the last three weeks I am dressing to hide. Skirts, loose tops and jeans. I have morbid thoughts of turning into a sumo wrestler in my 40ies…unable to get into my brother’s car.<br /><br />I do good work…in the last 2 weeks not because I want to but at times because I have to. I have become easy… at times cheat on myself. I think I am getting soft…and that scares me.<br />I am delaying my pleasure to avoid all fears. And the delay has become status quo in many things…I am getting comfortable in the delay.<br /><br />I know I have to get out…but I am waiting for the water to go over.<br /><br />I know what it is. I know what I have to do. But like sweet pain I keep poking it and feeling it but not healing it.<br /><br />I have to go to the hills. Soon.sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-43010605966204498572009-07-01T04:05:00.000-07:002009-07-01T04:09:52.346-07:00missing partsThe people who fascinate you are those who you want to be.<br />They represent a part of you that is unexpressed…creative producer, writer, mountain traveler, free child, wildlife researcher, photographer, rockstar, army officer, sportsman, radio jockey, actor, doctor, chef etc. They dust the windows in your mind and show you the possibilities embodied through them .<br />But what happens once you have what they have?<br /> Where do they go?sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-75018758699993892092009-06-25T02:50:00.000-07:002009-06-25T02:51:57.749-07:00An ode to simplicity…Some people love jargons,<br />it makes them sound so smart,<br />lending an air of importance to their ideas otherwise bland…<br /><br />For none can fight with ‘strategize impactful paradigms’<br />or argue against ‘leveraging vertical vortals’<br />in a a ‘Kafaesque’ atmosphere<br />in a neo magical realism portal<br /><br />It might ‘monetize global methodologies’<br />or ‘enhance best-of-breed eyeballs’<br />and ‘reintermediate interactive content’<br />to ‘repurpose synergistic community walls’<br /><br />But can it help you make a cup of tea?<br />or describe a fresh dew drop<br />or how to get to Timbuktu<br />or even to the corner shop?<br /><br />Can it inspire some passion,<br />or calm a troubled mind<br /><br />So can we please have some good old English<br />the common sense kind?sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-68887211735733358672009-06-18T05:50:00.001-07:002009-06-18T06:02:07.869-07:00my quotethe biggest mistake a woman makes is to think that she is the only one... the biggest mistake a man makes is not knowing he issridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-49942530335410273202009-04-09T01:07:00.000-07:002016-03-29T03:39:24.203-07:00Cambodia chronicles: Angkor Wat… who, when, where, why, how<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
22nd March 2009<br />
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<em>Hidden in roots and lost in time<br />Haunting flutes and cowbell chimes<br />Blackstone sandstone crumbling structures<br />Come together with reason and rhyme</em><br />
These are my thought as I think back of those temples; dating back to the 10th Century or more but still standing tall and stoic.<br />
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Angkor represents the Khmer empire's immense power and wealth as early as the 8th century. King Jayavarman II was the founder with his sons and nephews taking the glory forward. Staring off as a Hindu kingdom that primarily worshipped Shiva and Vishnu, over time the Buddhism influence grew much stronger. Therefore most temples have Shiv lingas along with images of Buddha. <br />
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We had to get a pass to visit the temples $20 for the day and $40 for 3 days. The temples are all far from each other and you will need at least 2 hours to just walk through each of them.<br />
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After an omelette breakfast we tuk tuk-ed for almost 2 hrs to Kbal Spean to see the 1000 lingas. It is up the Kulen Mountains and much glory was promised for the one who dared. It was a hot trek up meeting many on the way up and then down. Some kids offered me some boiled snails they were eating which I kind of refused. As always the journey was more fun than the destination as the lingas and the reclining Vishnu was not much to write home about. But we happily took pictures and came down…<br />
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On reaching back I went for a quick visit to the wildlife rehabilitation centre. I met Pok han Pokh a very enthusiastic and inspiring guy who showed me around the animals and birds…there were Brahminy kites, Serpent eagles, gibbons etc. He was really impressed with my knowledge of those birds…so I came off feeling all nice and special having made a good friend.<br />
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The next stop was Bantey Srei, a sandstone temple with the most intricate carvings ever. It means temple of the lady...yes in some cultures Sri means lady… It’s unbelievable how every stone, pillar, floor, window, door has the most beautiful carvings…and it’s withstood all the test of time.<br />
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By then it was late afternoon and we still had to catch the sunset at Angkor Wat. This is the largest of the temple complexes and was more like the royal residence with palatial ponds, monasteries, prayer halls, dancing halls, chambers etc in large architectural grandeur.<br />
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I liked the path leading up the back of the temple more than the temple complex itself. The evening sun was behind the temple and cast a halo effect and it looked and felt so lost in time. You can see the grandness of the temple a km away and as you walk closer it just looms larger. We were lucky there weren’t many people ahead of us.<br />
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As I wandered I wondered about all those people who would have walked the very same path…peasants, priests, monks, temple dancers and royalty. I might have been a monk or a dancer. Even as I write I feel trapped in that moment on that empty muddy road. <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimnplyelabuIt6OZjguaOtykcuMvegW5hSQCAA9yxmqd9e0rdLIrIZNWPinZ5guYOnq0q5M2ewhKYO3vTJT8LbfFCwBpyExY50qcHY4XV2IL5OZcA5f3Zjm7yQ9E4Q7v1ETHbTVt6WKQcw/s1600/DSC_0660.JPG" imageanchor="1"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEimnplyelabuIt6OZjguaOtykcuMvegW5hSQCAA9yxmqd9e0rdLIrIZNWPinZ5guYOnq0q5M2ewhKYO3vTJT8LbfFCwBpyExY50qcHY4XV2IL5OZcA5f3Zjm7yQ9E4Q7v1ETHbTVt6WKQcw/s320/DSC_0660.JPG" width="320" /></a><br />
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We finally returned to our hotel legless and tired and decided to have our dinner there. One of the local specialities is ‘Amok’ which is a semi dry curry with local herbs like lemon grass, ginger, coconut, tamarind and others. You can have Amok fish, pork or chicken. I had decided to eat fish on this trip so that was it.<br />
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Night life there is good with nice restaurants and good food, and the famous beer here is Angkor. I always thought South East Asia was very crowded and claustrophobic… I was so wrong. It’s quite and yet people are there, very simple yet magical. Makes you want to stay back more to at least learn the language.</div>
sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-33407911259897663722009-04-08T21:11:00.000-07:002016-03-29T03:13:18.824-07:00Cambodia chronicles: Getting there<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Bangkok 21st March 2009<br />
Hua Lampong station was just waking up at 5.28 am when Jenny n I got off the taxi, dragged our bags bought our tickets (48 Bhats each) to Aranya Prathet and plonked for a nice tea coffee and croissants. People normally fly to Hanoi so this kind of rail / road trip to Cambodia was a bit unconventional by local standards (and also a bit uncomfortable). Anyone attempting this should know in advance that there is only one such train and it leaves Bangkok at 5.50 am with only 3rd class compartments with no ac and not much food options on the way.<br />
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We were soon rushing pell mell to platform # 6 and scrambled up into a 3rd class train compartment. Now everything I had seen so far in Bangkok had set my expectations really high so obviously I balked a little when the strong smell of fish oil hit me that early in the morning. But I had decided to accept all and experience everything, so did what I do best with discomfort - pretend it didn’t exist…and all in the name of adventure.<br />
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The seats were unreserved so we raced to grab them. Quite unnecessary because the people are very polite and un-interfering and wouldn’t sit or push if you have a seat. Apart from a few giggles because of a ‘fragile’ sticker that got transferred from my bag to my back the next five and half hours to the border went pretty uneventful.<br />
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The locals are extremely clean, dainty and proper, so much so that a guy was drinking beer off a can with a straw. Since we weren’t Thai, there was no concern for local propriety and we hungrily gobbled a mango in the most un-lady like manner (mangoes there are a different; neither sweet nor sour).<br />
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The countryside is very much like ours…a mix of rice fields, mango, jackfruit, coconut, cashew, tamarind, cows, buffalos, drongos, kingfishers and egrets… You get the picture?<br />
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The hours passed by chatting, gossiping, discussing friends, brands, guys, work, styles, new interests and reliving old stories.<br />
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From Aryana Prathet one has to take a tuk tuk ( 80 bhats) to Poipet and then it’s a bit of a walk to the immigration office and entry gates to Cambodia. Be sure to pack some food from Bangkok as there isn’t much of a choice till you reach. It’s also a brilliant idea to get visas in advance. We had our Cambodia visas in place (Jenny got it online) so it was easier…and I just had to get a reentry visa for Thailand.<br />
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The borders are like most borders…boring, dry, empty, lifeless and makes you wanna quickly choose sides and get there fast. Entering Cambodia the first thing that hit was everyone's talking in dollars. Water, chips, cabs et all. No one talks in Cambodian 'Real' other than for tips.<br />
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You can hire a 4 seater cab for $15/person or a full cab for $40 and we did just that to compensate for the 5 and half hour train journey. The roads were surprisingly good and without potholes despite reports that the roads in Cambodia are no better than those in interior India.<br />
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We were on our way to Siem Reap; the tourist town nearest to all the temples. This is where we stayed for the next few days. Siem Reap simply means Siam defeated (Thailand is Siam). The Thai Army was stopped short of this place in one of the conflicts.<br />
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It was a 2 and half hour journey and we often stopped to refresh, and go to the loo. The loos there are like the Indian style loos and very clean (thats VERY high on my list). The loos were somewhat elevated off the ground-as if even there you could feel truly honoured.<br />
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At Siem Reap we stayed at the Golden Temple hotel (rooms from $20/night - bigger room upto $40). There are a variety of accommodations in Siem Reap and you can go from $8 shoestring to luxury of $2000/night. Most hotels have free internet cafes and a restaurant attached with fresh local and continental food. Vegetarians will be fine in Cambodia.<br />
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On first glance the hotel was orange in colour, hidden from the road and unassuming; more a house off the street than a hotel. A couple of trees hid it well and only on entering the gate can you see its quite splendour. A huge sculpture of Vishnu greeted us followed by a smaller Ganesha and a Buddha seated in a small pond by the side.<br />
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All guests had to take off their shoes before entering the hotel and we were welcomed with a ‘welcome drink’ and a 20 min free Khmer massage that could be taken anytime during the first 2 days of stay (we took it the next day and it was totally worth it).<br />
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After stuffing ourselves with food we went out that night to check out the local night scene. It’s a proper tourist village with areas like ‘Pub Street’ that have restaurants, bars and curio shops. The night market is nearby and so are all the atms, online telephone booths (but bad connectivity so get ur phone on international roaming) and tuk tuk points.<br />
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We soaked in the night with a free temple dance show, couple of beers, an absorbing discussion and hit the sack. That night I had some very dramatic dreams of falling off the edge of the earth. After all the next day onwards we were going back in time.</div>
sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-15819109625800909172009-03-04T01:44:00.000-08:002009-03-04T03:18:06.294-08:00zenned stateLast days at work are like a near death experience. For that matter last days anywhere, in a school, city, locality, relationship...<br /><br />You are there, yet not there. Not participating just watching everyone go about their business. This Zen like state brings up a lot of stuff and also brings down your defences.<br />For starters the place seems not as bereft of the reasons for leaving it. The same qualities that first attracted you come alive again. The highs you shared come a-shining and everything seems soft and haloed. Everyone seems so much nicer and you suddenly make more friends and those big jobs and worries you sweated over seem less intense.<br /><br />Sadly this omni vision is instantly erased from experience as soon as the working soul enters another work avatar and is left with only a faint lingering memory of what was and what could have been.sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-84329087025941249622009-02-04T21:01:00.000-08:002009-02-04T21:28:50.051-08:00Late farewell dos on Wednesdays is a cakewalk for the advertising types<p>Yesterday Joyoti, a good friend of mines spent her last day in JWT and the usual suspects went out for a farewell dinner. The plan was to leave around 7-7.30 but given Bombay traffic and an added religious festival to the route, it took us more than an hour from our isle in Lower Parel to Bandra. You can't start a conversation about Bombay without complaining about the traffic..in that we are like the British who always have the weather to talk about. Shibani's upperclass instincts and great taste got us to agree to go to BONOBO (have no clue what it means) and it lived up to it. Low lighting, great ambiance good food and wine. Hmmm...</p><p>As the food and drinks went in the warmth in us came out...it thawd the uncomfortable, fused the distant, and glued our bunch together. The details are not relevant and too controversial to reveal, but what what was nice is the learning that despite all our masks, our defenses, and projections, deep down we all are the same. We all seek companionship, we all want to be recognised and approved and included, we all have the same hopes and dreams, and we all want to make it easy for each other. </p><p>Advertising is like the never land...nobody ever grows up. We are in it because we love the energy, the action the ideas and we are willing to work for the work itself (obviously there is no money...its been famed to be the NGO of ideas). Its this spirit of the industry that keeps all of us young, all of us going and pulsing..and happy as we drift away to sleep. </p><p>Ps. On a different day this post could have turned out differently.</p>sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-18978561452803970812009-02-03T03:58:00.000-08:002009-04-08T05:58:27.554-07:00High adventure on a boring workday afternoonA cat chanced upon me in the most unlikely place.<br />I wanted some alone-time at lunch break with no one to disturb me. So with a cup of tea, I made myself comfortable under a tree where those in high offices park their car. From the cat’s perspective I wasn’t a car and even less likely to be anyone holding a higher office.<br /><br />Like all of the cat species she was clear what she wanted and was determined to get it….in this case it was to cross the car and go on her way. I am otherwise very accommodative to even spiders, ants and the occasional cockroach but her moves intrigued me and I decided to sit and watch.<br /><br />The first trick out of her bag was the blank beautiful green eyed stare…arrogant and petulant. But I out-stared her. This defiance on my part drew the battle lines for her.<br /><br />The next was the ‘quickly surprise and run by’ strategy and she edged her way forward…but then quickly retreated. She knew surprise wouldn’t work as I was looking, and her trigonometric calculations would have predicted a direct collision with me.<br /><br />She then sat for a while under the car contemplating and hoping to outwait me.<br /><br />What amazed me is how similar she seemed like the other felines …each of them prefers to walk in a path of least obstruction, avoiding so much as even a dead stick, and wisely avoiding wasteful or risky affairs…<br /><br />True to her feline instincts she choose to turn away well knowing the difference between when to carry on, which battles to choose, when to turn back gracefully and forget about it.sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5535419375356748114.post-50906312368267270752009-02-03T03:57:00.001-08:002009-02-04T21:39:44.781-08:00Newton will be proud<p>We metamorphose, for better or for worse. Life does that to us. From happy to panic attack depressive to happy again I’ve seen it all in the last 10 years; well at least a lot of it. This only makes me believe more that our natural state is to be happy…therefore we seek it. Physics explains we are bundles of energy. And energy is constantly striving to attain equilibrium or balance. </p><p>We do that be giving out excess energy – when we stand we sit to feel better and lie down to feel better still. In lying down we are in equilibrium. When we carry doubts, hurts, baggage and expectations we are off keel…and the only way to balance ourselves is to give it up…curl up into a bundle of joy or lie flat in surrender, and let go. </p><p>Now what does letting go mean? You can’t actively let go…it takes its own time, but you can work towards it by letting yourself feel all the emotions and hurts and doubts. Then slowly as each hurt is felt, each emotion is experienced and each doubt is cleared, we transform. Always for better.</p>sridevi nairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10534708629027417009noreply@blogger.com0